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WHY ARABS WOULDN'T DISCCUSS
ISSUES IN PEACE?
Mahgoub Al-Tigani, Ph.D.
Recently (January
1, 2001) Mr. Shafie' Khidir, NDA leader, and Dr. Omer Nour Al-Dayim, Umma
leader, discussed with GOS representative, the Sudanese Ambassador in
the U.K., many issues on the state of affair of Sudan via the Jazeera
Channel in Qatar.
The way Mr. Khidir,
in particular, carefully listened, thoughtfully replied, and consistently
curbed himself from interruption of the opponent on the other side of
the program was indeed a unique example of civilized discussion in the
Jazeera influential media.
On the other hand,
I was indeed wondering, having carefully watched almost most of the Arab
politicians, government or opposition, debating with Dr. Faysal Al-Qasim,
coordinator of the well-known Jazeera program "Akthar min Ray" issues
of their Arab States, why is it that the discussants:
- Would not allow
one another to speak without interruption
- Shout at one
another, sometimes with offensive words
- Would not answer
directly any question but rather make lengthy introductions or roundabouts
before they address themselves to the question.
I thought it might be that (1) the discussants know that there is a small
margin of liberty back at home for both of them to talk. (2) This lacking
in public freedoms at home creates the demand for the discussants to supply
as much ideas as they could. They need to say as much as they can within
the limited time of the program. (3) Perhaps there is a special psychology
for the Arab discussants.
The Arab speaking
discussants, I thought, might want to satisfy Antar (the famous knight
who continues to live inside them for centuries through socialization
and education). They might need to talk like Antar, shout at the enemy
like Antar, interrupt the opponent like Antar, and of course triumph over
the other discussant (even if there is a good chance for logical agreements
without this Antarism).
The Arab speaking
intellectuals and politicians I am seeing these days at the Jazeera Channel
want to behave like Antar with no possibility of any compromise or agreement,
whatever. They do like the Northern Sudanese proverb: "Ya qiriq, ya geet
ha-zima" [i.e., Either I win the whole thing or leave it all].
I watched the coordinator,
Faysal Al-Qasim, a professional media specialist, always interrupting
the discussants, never leaving them to complete their sentences. He like
them will not lose a minute not to incite the discussants with all kinds
of interruptions. The program is thus a real picture of the political
arena in the Arab States today.
Many of the sightseers
would feel frustrated, as the discussants are not clearly saying what
they are supposed to say. Many would feel funny as some commentators follow
suit, shouting and interrupting and going about the questions. The program
coordinator, the discussants, the commentators, and the sightseers all
shouting and yelling at one another!
The exceptional cases
are there too. Very few times, Faysal would invite Arab thinkers or politicians
who exert a great effort not to allow Antar to show his face from under
their tongues or through their thought. They would not interrupt one another.
They would agree and sometimes surrender in peace, perhaps because they
would have known the other discussant might have been completely overridden
by Abu Al-Fawaris [the Knight of Knights], Antar! So, better watch out
in silence, in a noble protest than join a brutal shout, I sometimes feels.
The interesting fact,
though, is that the majority of these exceptional discussants were visitors
whom Faysal invited to participate in his program from time to time. They
mostly live in western societies, the U.K. or the U.S.A. That is when
the commentators would pour all insults on them, "Americans! Colonial
subjects!" and some other labels I never would write.
When would the Arab
discussants pull off their souls, for good, the Antar who continues to
seat a non-compromising presence upon the Arab political relations as
well as cultural or social relations? Antar is already living in the Arab
family relations, marriage relations, or even the friendship relations
between the citizens of Arab States, the Arab speaking versus the
non-Arabs, the Arab Muslims versus the non-Muslims.
Why couldn't the
Arab citizens start the corrective process with the simple workaday discussions
that most humans do all over the world without a compelling mode to victor
over one another or smilingly humiliate the peaceful opponent?
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